{"id":3439,"date":"2018-10-29T13:59:20","date_gmt":"2018-10-29T12:59:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rkjh.se\/en\/?p=3439"},"modified":"2021-03-10T11:10:18","modified_gmt":"2021-03-10T10:10:18","slug":"the-results-you-want-by-doing-these-15-hard%e2%80%afthings-part-10-of-15","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rkjh.se\/en\/blog\/2018\/10\/29\/the-results-you-want-by-doing-these-15-hard%e2%80%afthings-part-10-of-15\/","title":{"rendered":"The Results You Want By Doing These 15 Hard\u202fThings. Part 10 of 15"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\n10. Results Oriented Know That Self Improvement And Living Their Ideals Makes Life Worth\u202fLiving <\/p>\n

I went to a casual Saturday coffee with a good friend who wanted to introduce me to another. We were talking about podcasts we like and the friend of my friend said \u201coh I don\u2019t care for self improvement\u201d in a way that implied they were evolved past it or even worse, to \u201ccool\u201d for it. I instantly knew this person needed it more than anyone and that they weren\u2019t growth minded much less results oriented. I came to find out later they weren\u2019t very \u201cambitous\u201d (their words not mine) and weren\u2019t \u201chappy with their job\u201d. Not surprised given they aren\u2019t striving to be their best each day with higher levels of excellence whether it was at work or life.
\nThis person also complained that there werne\u2019t enough single men in NYC, a city with the most # of single men. Something that would come generally from someone with a victim mindset that lacks. Not surprised that person was also \u201csingle\u201d even though they very much wanted not to be. Sad that they could instantly not be single if only they lived to uphold excellence for it\u2019s own sake.
\nWhen you exist to be excellent, there\u2019s nothing that doesn\u2019t get done. Trying doesn\u2019t even need to be tried. Things just happen.
\nThe reason this is so is because when growth is your \u201cwhy\u201d, you\u2019re naturally what get\u2019s perceived to be \u201crelentless\u201d by regular folks. Even though for you it\u2019s just a day of living, it\u2019s a way of doing things that attracts exactly what you want.
\nBack to my friends friend: if they strived every day to be their best for it\u2019s own sake,or became less \u201ccool\u201d and more of a self improvement \u201cnert\u201d (like me or you who reads these articles) they\u2019d figure out how their perceiption and limiting belief systems are literally creating the conscious reality they don\u2019t want.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

10. Results Oriented Know That Self Improvement And Living Their Ideals Makes Life Worth\u202fLiving  I went to a casual Saturday coffee with a good friend who wanted to introduce me to another. We were talking about podcasts we like and the friend of my friend said \u201coh I don\u2019t care for self improvement\u201d in a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_angie_page":false,"page_builder":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[189],"tags":[324],"class_list":["post-3439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-the-results-you-want-by-doing-these-15-hard-things","tag-business-development-en"],"acf":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t